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๐—•๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—”๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—˜๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ. ๐—ก๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—˜๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ฑm๐—ฎ๐—ป.

Writer: Riverson Oppong, PhD.
Riverson Oppong, PhD.
Aug 20
1 min read

Envy is rarely directed at the person going nowhere. People seldom become uncomfortable with a life they do not secretly admire.


Sometimes, the cold looks, strange comments, sudden distance, or quiet attempts to diminish you are not proof that you are doing something wrong. They may simply mean that something about your progress has become difficult for someone else to watch.


So don't shrink yourself just to make other people comfortable.


You worked for your growth. You survived the days nobody saw. You carried doubts, made sacrifices, learned painful lessons, and kept moving when stopping would have been easier.


Enjoy the fruit without apologizing for the harvest.


Of course, don't become arrogant. Don't deliberately provoke envy. And don't measure your worth by how many people resent you.


But when envy comes, don't let it disturb your peace either.


A madman can dance naked in the marketplace and attract plenty of attention, but nobody wishes to exchange lives with him. Attention is cheap. Envy is different. Sometimes it is an uncomfortable admission that another person sees something in your life they wish they had in theirs.


Keep your character. Keep your humility. Keep doing the work.


And when your light makes someone squint, resist the temptation to switch it off.


You were not given a life to spend it dimming yourself for the comfort of spectators.

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